~ Synergetic Reading for Kathy ~
Dear Kathy,
From your mail I understand that you are in love with two different men, Luke and Peter. Both of them seem to care for you a great deal and they are so much alike it is making it hard for you to make a decision. You would like to know how your prospects of a long-term relationship with each of these men.
Before I did the Tarot reading for you, I performed a Psychic reading to get more clarity about the situation. Here's what I saw. I have translated the symbolism of the visuals that I saw into plain English for a better flow of the reading.
At this time you are not able to focus solely on one of these men. If you focus on one of them, the focus gets shifted from the other one. Also, you are
realizing that there is no way you can have both of them with you. The core of your relationship with Luke is based on proximity, trust and the comfort level both of you have reached. But you feel that there is something missing. More than passion it is the comfort of being with a man you know so well. Luke may not be the kind of guy who would hold open a door for you when you go out.
On the other hand, the basis of your relationship with Peter seems to be based on common interests and recognition of the good things in life. He sounds like the romantic man who sends you gifts and makes you feel comfortable. He seems to be a resourceful guy who is attentive to your needs and wants. From your mail I understand that Peter stays out of state. There was a vision of books sent to you as a gift.
As for a relationship with Luke in the long term, you may enter a state of solitude and possible dissatisfaction. This may be because of his works hours or his necessary dedication to important pursuits. Peter will come home every evening with flowers (ok, may be once in a while with flowers) and your life may be more materially comfortable in this case.
There may be some issues related to kids on which you may differ from Luke. This may be related to having more kids or already present kids. With respect to Peter, you may not always like his want of being in a group or being with friends. You may sometimes feel that his nature is immature and that he does not always look at the big picture when deciding.
Then I asked for a message for you. The visuals showed that this is indeed a sticky situation, but the advice is to not dilly dally any further. It is suggested that you possibly make a journey to Peter's place and then make up your mind.
Here is the Tarot reading I did after the meditation. The readings are working to reinforce each other.
Your present state : 3 of wands
You are waiting on the shore and trying to have a look at the big picture. Like trying to see which of the ships is going to hit home first.
You are trying to make use of your experience to reach a wise decision in time.
You realize that you may not be able to shoulder this dilemma any further.
Core of your relationship with Luke : The Sun
This card emphasizes the closeness your proximity brings and the freedom that naturally comes from having reached a comfort level.
There is a feeling of childlike wonder and cheerfulness. You feel very free from
cares when you are with Luke.
Core of your relationship with Peter : Page of pentacles
Your relationship is based on sharing the same interests and having an interest in enjoying the good things in life. There may be an element of child like
expression here. Here the focus seems to be on more polished way of thinking and
living. This may be reflected in both of yours behaviour when you are together.
Long term outlook for your relationship with Luke : 10 of swords
This card is indicating that a feeling of solitude and incompleteness may mar
the relationship in the in the long term. One or both of you may end up feeling
like a victim. It may take a long time before such a realization hits, though.
Long term outlook for your relationship with Peter : 6 of swords
You may start a new life together and he will be around to help out. This may also be indicating a move to another/his place.
Peter will acknowledge your past and will be willing and capable of carrying out
the responsibilities that a long term relationship demands.
What you need to know regarding your relationship with Luke : 4 of cups
There may be dissatisfaction at times or a feeling of not being paid enough attention.
It may be so due to a possible mismatch of expectations or a lack of emotional
bonding between the two of you.
What you need to know regarding your relationship with Peter : 3 of pentacles
He may turn out to be the more sociable man who believes in involving others in his affairs. You may or may not like it sometimes. This also emphasizes that both of you may feel like a team working together on your relationship.
Guidance for now : King of swords
This is not the time to vacillate. Clouds are looming and the opportunity may not always be hovering around.
You have the chance to weigh the pros and cons of your relationship with each of
these wonderful gentlemen and carve out a secure and beautiful life for
yourself.
Dear Kathy, I hope this reading helps you in some small way to make a more informed decision. I would like to hear how you feel about the reading.
Best wishes,
Sonal
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